adb: switch the socket list mutex to a recursive_mutex.

sockets.cpp was branching on whether a socket close function was
local_socket_close in order to avoid a potential deadlock if the socket
list lock was held while closing a peer socket.

Bug: http://b/28347842
Change-Id: I5e56f17fa54275284787f0f1dc150d1960256ab3
(functionally a cherrypick of 903b749f + 9b587dec, with windows disabled)