[SCSI] libsas: Add SAS_HA state flags to avoid queueing events while unloading

Track sas_ha_struct state so that we ignore events that come in while
we're shutting things down.

Signed-off-by: Malahal Naineni <malahal@us.ibm.com>
Signed-off-by: James Bottomley <James.Bottomley@SteelEye.com>