fsnotify: Make fsnotify_mark_connector hold inode reference

Currently inode reference is held by fsnotify marks. Change the rules so
that inode reference is held by fsnotify_mark_connector structure
whenever the list is non-empty. This simplifies the code and is more
logical.

Reviewed-by: Miklos Szeredi <mszeredi@redhat.com>
Reviewed-by: Amir Goldstein <amir73il@gmail.com>
Signed-off-by: Jan Kara <jack@suse.cz>