fsnotify: Move object pointer to fsnotify_mark_connector

Move pointer to inode / vfsmount from mark itself to the
fsnotify_mark_connector structure. This is another step on the path
towards decoupling inode / vfsmount lifetime from notification mark
lifetime.

Reviewed-by: Miklos Szeredi <mszeredi@redhat.com>
Reviewed-by: Amir Goldstein <amir73il@gmail.com>
Signed-off-by: Jan Kara <jack@suse.cz>