md-cluster: Defer MD reloading to mddev->thread

Reloading of superblock must be performed under reconfig_mutex. However,
this cannot be done with md_reload_sb because it would deadlock with
the message DLM lock. So, we defer it in md_check_recovery() which is
executed by mddev->thread.

This introduces a new flag, MD_RELOAD_SB, which if set, will reload the
superblock. And good_device_nr is also added to 'struct mddev' which is
used to get the num of the good device within cluster raid.

Signed-off-by: Goldwyn Rodrigues <rgoldwyn@suse.com>
Signed-off-by: Guoqing Jiang <gqjiang@suse.com>
Signed-off-by: NeilBrown <neilb@suse.com>