xfs: rewrite xfs_bmap_count_leaves using xfs_iext_get_extent

This avoids poking into the internals of the extent list.  Also return
the number of extents as the return value instead of an additional
by reference argument, and make it available to callers outside of
xfs_bmap_util.c

Signed-off-by: Christoph Hellwig <hch@lst.de>
Reviewed-by: Darrick J. Wong <darrick.wong@oracle.com>
Signed-off-by: Darrick J. Wong <darrick.wong@oracle.com>