xfs: use xfs_iext_*_extent helpers in xfs_bmap_split_extent_at

This abstracts the function away from details of the low-level extent
list implementation.

Signed-off-by: Christoph Hellwig <hch@lst.de>
Reviewed-by: Darrick J. Wong <darrick.wong@oracle.com>
Signed-off-by: Darrick J. Wong <darrick.wong@oracle.com>