xfs: don't allow reflinked dir/dev/fifo/socket/pipe files

Only non-rt files can be reflinked, so check that when we load an
inode.  Also, don't leak the attr fork if there's a failure.

Signed-off-by: Darrick J. Wong <darrick.wong@oracle.com>
Reviewed-by: Christoph Hellwig <hch@lst.de>