resolv: speed up the termination of loop thread in testing DNS and TLS servers

Use eventfd as a signal to notify the loop thread to terminate. The
loop thread can be terminated right after their stopServer() is called.

Also some minor changes:
[1] Use unique_fd for sockets to avoid fd leakage.
[2] Use ScopedAddrinfo in DnsTlsFrontend to prevent memory unfreed
    if getaddrinfo() fails.
[3] Remove the unnecessary call stopServer() in resolver_test since
    it is automatically called in the their destructor.
[4] Timeout value in the loop thread polling is set as -1 by default.

Before this change: resolv_integration_test takes 145283 ms
After this change: resolv_integration_test takes 125249 ms

Bug: 130686826
Test: runtest and netd_benchmark passed
Merged-In: I2810743d17f858a273157267495274195f04dcbc
Merged-In: Ieb729e899506caad50a8c613c4b9e75209229135
Change-Id: I97c44ff87c4adfa6242bbd3aa0970474004c16f4
(cherry picked from commit a2b8cb03)