secure_element/aidl: add state checking in TearDown()

For some secure elements, reset() may takes more than 2.5 seconds.
- Extend timeout duration
- In TearDown(), wait until reset() is completed.

Bug: 273872072
Test: atest VtsHalSecureElementTargetTest
Change-Id: I345e1ac28e87423cfcbecd07aa049034fa28c40f