Use onUnlinked in health HAL

It's possible to get an onBinderDied callback after a call to
AIBinder_unlinkToDeath() so we can't delete the objects in callbacks_
until we are done using the void* cookie.
Handling the cleanup in onBinderUnlinked will handle the case where we
manually unlink it as well as the case where it's unlinked due to death.

Test: atest VtsHalHealthTargetTest
Bug: 319210610
(cherry picked from https://googleplex-android-review.googlesource.com/q/commit:e5e95bf5759a736f3debc6eb583fb1c82b38d847)
(cherry picked from https://googleplex-android-review.googlesource.com/q/commit:1e1627a5da86782960a157a059aec816be5c82b1)
Merged-In: Iee4783217cc88134af6de0fe66128684ca984dba
Change-Id: Iee4783217cc88134af6de0fe66128684ca984dba