BlastBufferQueue: Add support for auto refresh

When BQ is in shared bufer mode, the client can request
the consumer to aquire frames as fast as possible before
waiting for a frame to be available. To support this for
BLAST, pass the state via a transaction.

Fixes: 168506187
Test: atest SurfaceViewBufferTests
Change-Id: I25ddd98671a08e56798612b7e5dc72095b2c4b7b