binder_rs: Add in-place deserialization methods

This adds deserialize_from methods to the Deserialize
and DeserializeOption traits in libbinder_rs that perform
in-place deserialization of values on top of existing objects.
The new methods are used for partial deserialization of parcelables
in the AIDL compiler.
Also adds a helper impl_deserialize_for_parcelable! helper macro.

Bug: 186724059
Test: m
Change-Id: I9fcbd4c7fa4ab85d8ab84792c9c5595ee149879f