swapchain: avoid redundant disconnect/connect for new surface

Platform API contract ensures VkSurfaceKHR is created with a new or
disconnected ANativeWindow. Then the first swapchain created against the
new surface can skip the disconnect/connect of the native window, which
saves 2 binder IPC calls.

In theory, the same can be skipped until the first successful present
call. We dirty the bit at the end of swapchain creation to avoid extra
external synchronization.

Bug: 275176234
Bug: 265763295
Test: no deadlock against ANGLE eglCreateWindowSurface
Change-Id: Ic2d09e4547e0ec7e910863c77a4657d52e9366fd