libbinder: Add binder already sent checks

These operations should only be done before the binder object
is sent out to another process:
  - setRequestingSid
  - setMinSchedulerPolicy
  - setInheritRt
  - setExtension

Add log and abort if these are attempted after the binder object
has been sent already.

Bug: 166282674
Test: binderParcelTest
Change-Id: Id2c1d0dc783cad75754a06a3047cf6c7bf704c63