Modified the vibration of the notification panel

The vibrations are now gated by "Vibrate on Tap"
This also moves the vibration on expansion to a
tick instead of a click.
Also improved the performance, such that vibrations
are now happening on the background thread instead
of the foreground.

Fixes: 64600716
Fixes: 64121575
Test: manual, observe vibrations when expanding / scrolling
Change-Id: I5099287adacc0f916941fd77e97948b9fa16ad09