SurfaceView: Avoid destination frame updates on multiple threads 1/2

The caller such as SurfaceView can optionally apply destination
frame changes if they wish to synchronize buffer scale with other
scales in the hierarchy. This is hard to synchronize if the buffer
scale changes, since in fixed scaling mode we want the destination
frame to be applied when a buffer of the new size is queued.

This approach is brittle because SurfaceView does not have control
over the buffer production and the app can get into a scenario
where there is scaled incorrectly.

Fix this by configuring BBQ to always apply destination frame
changes or always defer to the caller. If the scaling mode is freeze,
then BBQ will set a flag to ignore the destination frame. This
allows us to synchronize destination frame changes with scale
applied by a parent and avoid unwanted scaling if the scaling
mode changes to freeze.

Test: atest SurfaceViewTest
Test: go/wm-smoke
Bug: 217973491
Change-Id: I5226c304bae9dde890306f8528dfeabf6b015a32