Fix potential double destroy of AssetManager

Assume there is a XmlBlock [X] created by a AssetManager [A]
([A] will have mNumRefs = 2). After [A].close is called
(mNumRefs = 1) and then both [X] and [A] are going to be GCed,
if [A].finalize is called first (nativeDestroy), the later
[X].finalize will invoke [A].xmlBlockGone that triggers the
second nativeDestroy of [A] and leads to crash.

By clearing the mObject in AssetManager.finalize, the
decRefsLocked from other paths won't call nativeDestroy again.

Bug: 144028297
Test: atest android.security.cts.AssetManagerTest

Change-Id: Ia938502d2443f5a6de6a3cabdb7ce1d41d3ff6d1
Merged-In: Ia938502d2443f5a6de6a3cabdb7ce1d41d3ff6d1
(cherry picked from commit 93320661)