Fix swipe cancel lifetime extended notifs

Allows LE notifications to be cancelled again. This was broken in
ag/26818707 when we moved the sysui specific update into the
CancelationRunnable, and excepted action clicks, but not swipe
cancellations or any other cancellation reason
from having that update sent (which resulted in sysui showing an update
whenever the notification was swiped away).

Bug: 333704739
Test: atest NotificationManagerServiceTest
Flag: ACONFIG android.app.lifetime_extension_refactor STAGING
Change-Id: I9826e1cb7579acf3fc14e1a14f1871d02067a35c