Update PiP action even if menu is not visible

Deprecate also the query on WM for pip bounds in PhonePipMenuController

Video: http://recall/-/aaaaaabFQoRHlzixHdtY/n6eylZkmVGfJwp0nl42un
Bug: 172587320
Test: Play in spotify when PiP is in playing state, see video
Test: atest WMShellFlickerTests:com.android.wm.shell.flicker.pip
Change-Id: Ieca6b3e136d5fff6818474ef012ea6b415515fb4