move scoring, sound, vibration, and lights into a handler

As a prelude to introducing fancier scoring functions, this CL
moves scoring and everything that depends on it into a handler.
This allows the NotificationManagerService to report back to the
calling process right away about whether or not the notification
is valid; not blocking while score is computed, and non-statusbar
notification modalities are activated.

Change-Id: Iaf77bc89544bb7bcb7adeda60885d74c3170541c