Recompose sized tiles in InfiniteGrid when the large tiles set changes

We previously assumed that tile sizes could only change in edit mode while QS was not composed.
The recent change allowing QS to be fully composed at all times broke that assumption and we now have to listen to updates to the large tiles set in order to reflect the most up to date sizes.

Test: manually editing tiles
Flag: com.android.systemui.qs_ui_refactor_compose_fragment
Fixes: 401549185
Change-Id: Ib89b3fe03188b8f11000f9fb4af03da14c8b5e93