Catch exception for deferred window transaction

Currently a queued window container transaction may execute
on display thread. Because the transaction might be deferred a
while, its operations may be no longer valid. And since
applyTransaction may throw: UnsupportedOperationException,
IllegalArgumentException and RuntimeException, catch the
exceptions for the deferred case to avoid crashing the system.

Also ignore some hierarchy operations if the target container
was detached.

Fix: 282560294
Test: atest TransitionTests#testQueueWithLegacy

Change-Id: Id5fc8c31f51b6def5f1b155f3a5a0d2c9d55df63