Use !NotInPlatform instead of !DirectlyInAnyApex for apex required deps

Add required entries to install dependencies on the system image for
dependencies that are available to the platform instead of checking
DirectlyInAnyApex.

This causes some minor changes to the LOCAL_REQUIRED_MODULES passed
to Make for apex modules.  Vendor and product apex modules no longer list
libc.vendor, libm.vendor and libdl.vendor or libc.product, libm.product
and libdl.product, but those should already be installed without help
from the apex.  The media apex no longer depends on libstatssocket,
but libstatssocket (without any suffix) is an uninstallable module in
Make, so that dependency wasn't doing anything.

Bug: 372543712
Test: builds
Change-Id: I3e0e4d5caeb72c0d89107ebda96046450115ec18