Add --release and --lib-variant to the instructions to update ABI dumps

The ABI dumps depend on the LLNDK API level and SDK version defined
in the release configurations. The error messages shows additional
parameters for the user to select the right version and variant.

Test: make libvulkan
Bug: 323447559
Change-Id: If12f3f74be49c3036516f42fb5d91979b610fafe