libbinder: Parcel: grow rejects large data pos

This is unexpected behavior so throw an error.
Allocating this much memory may cause OOM or
other issues.

Bug: 370831157
Test: fuzzer
(cherry picked from commit 608524d4)
(cherry picked from https://googleplex-android-review.googlesource.com/q/commit:f46b9cd0e7a41b71b7279a1de4103b3aff372f82)
Merged-In: Iea0884ca61b08e52e6a6e9c66693e427cb5536f4
Change-Id: Iea0884ca61b08e52e6a6e9c66693e427cb5536f4