All consumers now take an IGraphicBufferConsumer instead of a BufferQueue

this means they only have access to the consumer end of
the interface. we had a lot of code that assumed consumers
where holding a BufferQueue (i.e.: both ends), so most of
this change is untangling in fix that

Bug: 9265647
Change-Id: Ic2e2596ee14c7535f51bf26d9a897a0fc036d22c