Improve BlockingQueue and add SyncQueue

Changes to BlockingQueue:
- Change BlockingQueue to be list-backed instead of vector-backed so
  that removals are O(1) instead of O(N).
- Rename erase to erase_if.
- Make providing a fixed capacity at construction optional.
- Add emplace function to push and construct element in-place.
- Add popWithTimeout function.

Bug: 275726706
Test: atest inputflinger_tests
Change-Id: I1be02b0887df2c21b28f4f1cb43a8e208d996a87