libaudiohal@aidl: Handle stream resume uniformly (2)

The previous patch b27cb9ba
did not allow resuming from `TRANSFER_PAUSED` and
`DRAIN_PAUSED` states that actuall allow receiving
of the `start` command.

Bug: 336948057
Test: repro steps in the bug
Change-Id: I79c6ac436242b1e829e214468f592e4b3328f70d