APM: apply volumes when abs volume stream changes

Whenever the stream that drives the absolute volume changes also reapply
all the stream volumes for all the active outputs.

Reapplying the reverted CL ag/30134818, do not use timeout when applying volumes and
only apply if something changes.

Test: manual + logs
Flag: EXEMPT bugfix
Bug: 378613219
(cherry picked from https://googleplex-android-review.googlesource.com/q/commit:6319b2d1d6e38637e2967292a83ed25b340cb646)
Merged-In: Ia746926472f942b3c506bf6e55d614a67ddbad1a
Change-Id: Ia746926472f942b3c506bf6e55d614a67ddbad1a