BufferQueues: clean up ConsumerBase constructors (media)

These currently use flags that muddy up client code. We've added nice
new *::create methods, so lets use those and clean
things up.

BYPASS_IGBP_IGBC_API_REASON=warren buffers

Bug: 398822412
Flag: EXEMPT refactor
Test: builds, presubmit
Change-Id: I02b048a9658f1a879ad7696aebc09017ab218591