AAudio: do not call to aaudio service when the binder has dead.

When aaudio service has dead, the client should not call to service as
its stream handle may be reassigned to a new stream. Instead, when there
is binder death, the stream should be in disconnected state, there
should be an error callback fired.

In AAudioBinderAdapter, it takes a service lifetime id as a reference to
current aaudio service. When there is binder death, the service id will
be increased by 1. When AAudioBinderAdapter finds the service id provided
by the client is different from its own service id, it should reject the
request.

When a MMAP stream is open, it receives a service lifetime id to
recognize the service that it connects to. When processing data, the
client will return AAUDIO_ERROR_DISCONNECTED if current service lifetime
id is different from the one it cached.

Bug: 269531552
Test: repo steps in the bug
Test: atest AAudioTests
Test: oboeservice_fuzzer
Change-Id: Ieddd89fa2e23ad56d34a7fbccb8fb9a70917330e