net: ipc_router: Fix the race condition during SSR

During subsystem restart, SMD XPRT state is checked after starting the
write operation on a SMD channel. The channel state is different from its
corresponding XPRT state. This causes a writer to start the write operation
and then abort it, since the channel is not in reset state and the XPRT is
in reset state. This in turn causes the channel to be busy.

Check the XPRT state first before performing the write operation on its
corresponding channel. Remove the XPRT from the XPRT list at the earliest
possible, so that any write operation on a reset XPRT is avoided.

Change-Id: Id97870d4d6dae2d778fe0b4f39fc5265ffcaa51b
Signed-off-by: Karthikeyan Ramasubramanian <kramasub@codeaurora.org>