xfs: factor out xfs_dir2_leaf_find_entry

Add a new xfs_dir2_leaf_find_entry helper to factor out some duplicate code
from xfs_dir2_leaf_addname xfs_dir2_leafn_add.  Found by Eric Sandeen using
an automated code duplication checker.

Signed-off-by: Christoph Hellwig <hch@lst.de>
Reviewed-by: Alex Elder <aelder@sgi.com>
Reviewed-by: Dave Chinner <dchinner@redhat.com>