[NETFILTER]: ctnetlink: return EEXIST instead of EINVAL for existing nat'ed conntracks

ctnetlink must return EEXIST for existing nat'ed conntracks instead of
EINVAL. Only return EINVAL if we try to update a conntrack with NAT
handlings (that is not allowed).

Decadence:libnetfilter_conntrack/utils# ./conntrack_create_nat
TEST: create conntrack (0)(Success)
Decadence:libnetfilter_conntrack/utils# ./conntrack_create_nat
TEST: create conntrack (-1)(Invalid argument)

Signed-off-by: Pablo Neira Ayuso <pablo@netfilter.org>
Signed-off-by: Patrick McHardy <kaber@trash.net>
Signed-off-by: David S. Miller <davem@davemloft.net>