drbd: Fixed a race between disk-attach and unexpected state changes

This was a very hard to trigger race condition.

If we got a state packet from the peer, after drbd_nl_disk() has
already changed the disk state to D_NEGOTIATING but
after_state_ch() was not yet run by the worker, then receive_state()
might called drbd_sync_handshake(), which in turn crashed
when accessing p_uuid.

Signed-off-by: Philipp Reisner <philipp.reisner@linbit.com>
Signed-off-by: Lars Ellenberg <lars.ellenberg@linbit.com>