drbd: No longer answer P_RS_DATA_REQUEST packets when in C_AHEAD mode

When the sync source node replies to a P_RS_DATA_REQUEST packet
when it is already in ahead mode. I.e. those two packets
crossed each other on the wire, that may lead to diverging
bitmaps.

  This never happens in a well-tuned-system. In a well-tuned-
  system the resync controller has reduced the resync speed
  to zero long before we got into ahead-mode.

But we have to be prepared for the not-well-tuned-system
of course as well.
Because -> diverging bitmaps = non terminating resync.

Signed-off-by: Philipp Reisner <philipp.reisner@linbit.com>
Signed-off-by: Lars Ellenberg <lars.ellenberg@linbit.com>