Btrfs: bugfix: ignore the wrong key for indirect tree block backrefs

The key we store with a tree block backref is only a hint. It is set when
the ref is created and can remain correct for a long time. As the tree is
rebalanced, however, eventually the key no longer points to the correct
destination.

With this patch, we change find_parent_nodes to no longer add keys unless it
knows for sure they're correct (e.g. because they're for an extent data
backref). Then when we later encounter a backref ref with no parent and no
key set, we grab the block and take the first key from the block itself.

Signed-off-by: Jan Schmidt <list.btrfs@jan-o-sch.net>