rbd: add read_only rbd map option

Add the ability to map an rbd image read-only, by specifying either
"read_only" or "ro" as an option on the rbd "command line."  Also
allow the inverse to be explicitly specified using "read_write" or
"rw".

Signed-off-by: Alex Elder <elder@inktank.com>
Reviewed-by: Yehuda Sadeh <yehuda@inktank.com>