drbd: Don't use empty nested netlink attributes

Before mainline commit ea5693cc (v2.6.29-rc1), empty nested netlink attributes
were not allowed.  Fix that by leaving out nested attributes if they are empty
and by allowing the top-level attributes to be missing.

Signed-off-by: Philipp Reisner <philipp.reisner@linbit.com>
Signed-off-by: Lars Ellenberg <lars.ellenberg@linbit.com>