firewire: check cdev response length

Add a check that the data length in the SEND_RESPONSE ioctl is correct.
Incidentally, this also fixes the previously wrong response length of
software-handled lock requests.

Signed-off-by: Clemens Ladisch <clemens@ladisch.de>
Signed-off-by: Stefan Richter <stefanr@s5r6.in-berlin.de>