dm mpath: prevent io from work queue while suspended

Reject messages that can generate I/O while the device itself
is suspended.

Signed-off-by: Mike Anderson <andmike@linux.vnet.ibm.com>
Acked-by: Kiyoshi Ueda <k-ueda@ct.jp.nec.com>
Signed-off-by: Alasdair G Kergon <agk@redhat.com>