[SCSI] lpfc 8.1.1 : Fixes to error handlers

- Release task management command before counting outstanding commands.
  TMF was being erroneously counted as an active outstanding command.
- Serialize EH calls and block requests when EH function is running.

Signed-off-by: James Smart <James.Smart@emulex.com>
Signed-off-by: James Bottomley <James.Bottomley@SteelEye.com>