cxgb3: AEL2020 phy support update

We don't always see the link status update interrupt
when we come out of reset and the peer is up.
Check and report the link status right before enabling interrupts.
Also fix LED settings, to get a consistent link status.

Signed-off-by: Divy Le Ray <divy@chelsio.com>
Signed-off-by: David S. Miller <davem@davemloft.net>