ashmem: Add shmem_set_file to mm/shmem.c

NOT FOR STAGING
This patch re-adds the original shmem_set_file to mm/shmem.c
and converts ashmem.c back to using it.

CC: Brian Swetland <swetland@google.com>
CC: Colin Cross <ccross@android.com>
CC: Arve Hjønnevåg <arve@android.com>
CC: Dima Zavin <dima@android.com>
CC: Robert Love <rlove@google.com>
CC: Greg KH <greg@kroah.com>
Signed-off-by: John Stultz <john.stultz@linaro.org>