drbd: Fixes from the drbd-8.3 branch

* drbd-8.3:
  drbd: O_SYNC gives EIO on ramdisks for some kernels (eg. RHEL6).
  drbd: send intermediate state change results to the peer

Signed-off-by: Philipp Reisner <philipp.reisner@linbit.com>
Signed-off-by: Lars Ellenberg <lars.ellenberg@linbit.com>