drbd: Considering that the two_primaries config flag can change

Now since it is possible to change the two_primaries config
flag while the connection is up, make sure we treat a peer_req
in a consistent way if the config flag changes while the peer_req
is under IO.

Signed-off-by: Philipp Reisner <philipp.reisner@linbit.com>
Signed-off-by: Lars Ellenberg <lars.ellenberg@linbit.com>