drbd: Remove headers from on-the-wire data structures (struct p_*)

Prepare the introduction of the protocol 100 headers. The actual protocol
header is removed for the packet declarations. I.e. allow us to use the
packets with different headers.

Signed-off-by: Philipp Reisner <philipp.reisner@linbit.com>
Signed-off-by: Lars Ellenberg <lars.ellenberg@linbit.com>