[SCSI] cxgb4i: connection and ddp setting update

Update cxgb4i connection setting and pagepod programming.

Signed-off-by: Karen Xie <kxie@chelsio.com>
Reviewed-by: Mike Christie <michaelc@cs.wisc.edu>
Signed-off-by: James Bottomley <James.Bottomley@suse.de>