module: layout_and_allocate

layout_and_allocate() does everything up to and including the final
struct module placement inside the allocated module memory.  We have
to store the symbol layout information in our struct load_info though.

This avoids the nasty code we had before where 'mod' pointed first
to the version inside the temporary allocation containing the entire
file, then later was moved to point to the real struct module: now
the main code only ever sees the final module address.

(Includes fix for the Tony Luck-found Linus-diagnosed failure path
 error).

Signed-off-by: Rusty Russell <rusty@rustcorp.com.au>